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March 10, 2018

I have a client who is very committed to his spouse. Recently, he realized that he has been neglecting many of his own needs in order to satisfy hers. We all know that in marriage we each need to give and take, but when the equation gets weighted heavily to one side th...

February 25, 2018

One of my clients has started his own business, and he is looking to grow it substantially this year. In an effort to market his business, he has booked several speaking gigs and has been asked to provide a bio. He sent a draft of his bio to me, and it was a typical de...

February 20, 2018

This week's focus is on how to manage difficult people in our lives. Well, I don't know anyone more difficult to handle than a teen, except for maybe a 3-year-old. As a mother of two teens, I can personally attest that teens can erupt suddenly, behave unexpectedly and...

February 20, 2018

There is nothing more helpful than approaching people problems as a coach. Coaches are masters of asking powerful questions. They listen at a very deep level so they take in tone, body language, words, energy, and micro-expressions to craft a question that nudges peopl...

February 20, 2018

Most of us don't look forward to dealing with difficult people. When we think about conflict and confrontation, most of us feel an energy drain. One way to reframe dealing with a difficult person is to think about being curious. Releasing the need to judge or to prove...

January 26, 2018

I have a friend whose parent has made a terrible decision in her life. My friend and her siblings are really upset about this decision, and they are finding themselves spending a lot of time and energy attempting to get their parent to rethink her decision. When I as...

January 24, 2018

When I work with organizations on their development programs, I witness a lot of discomfort around encouraging employees to be able to share their issues with each other. I have a theory that people become uncomfortable because they assume they have to fix other peopl...

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